Today was a bad day

For the past two years, I have been walking around and patting myself on the back.

We successfully changed behaviors in therapy.

We overcame adversities. And aggression.

And I told people about it.

But almost immediately after I share our successes with others or think I have found the light at the end of this very dark tunnel, the magnetic forces of the universe, or fate, or something out of nowhere pokes the bear.

Today was a hard day for Ally. And I am not sure why, but she tried to run away, both at school and at home.

This was a behavior we changed long ago but has resurfaced twice this year, first in the Fall and now. Eloping behavior was why we put her on meds. It was what kept me up at night. And now tonight, I worry what happens when someone isn’t fast enough to catch her.

I think about that day I put my three-year-old on medication because I myself was too injured to chase her.

While I hope this was just a visit from an old ghost, it feels like trauma from our past is creeping up on us, here to remind us that behaviors don’t just go away and that this is our reality.

Or just a bad day.

Published by mischiefmomma

Mischief Momma was started in 2016 to write about the playful truths of parenting and life. In 2017, MM began to focus more on writing about parenting and life on the spectrum and raising her daughter and stepson. She writes about the joys, humor, and struggles of raising children who are different, and navigating obstacles like childcare, education, and work. This mom writes about her journey upward after hitting rock bottom.

2 thoughts on “Today was a bad day

  1. Your beautiful daughter so reminds me of my dark haired big eyed beauty. I have only read two posts but I am in tears as I feel these are my words and no one understands. Not teachers, The ESE professionals, friends, or even family. Thank you for just giving me a moment of not feeling alone and highlighting there is more to my daughter than her disabilities! ❤️


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